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Anger, volatility, explosiveness in relationships
Are you in a volatile relationship, where every time you talk there's a chance things are going to blow up into a big fight? Then read on...
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 21, 20215 min read
Stealthing, trust, relationships, hope, and you
And now there's stealthing. This post is about what stealthing is and what it has to do with all of us and all of our relationships.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 17, 20214 min read
Power, freedom, and critical race theory
Power dynamics are everywhere. Read this and see. And if so, then they're certainly likely to be running rampant in your relationship.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 15, 20214 min read
4 steps to an energizing, fulfilling life
We talked about people being worn out from their life. Here we offer 4 steps to prevent that, to give you a life that gives back to you.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 13, 20215 min read
“I’m recovering from my life”
It's time we thought about what our lives and how we live them are going to do to us.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 10, 20214 min read
Power, abuse, and breaking free
What is it to be trauma bound, and how do you break free of an abusive relationship?
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 8, 20214 min read
What’s couples therapy all about?
Want to know what couples therapy is really all about? Here's my interview with Five Books.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 6, 20211 min read
4 steps to breaking free from your traps
So...HOW do you break free when you feel trapped? Here's how, in 4 steps.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 3, 20214 min read
Trapped?
We can't understand our lives unless we understand the ways we feel trapped. We can't make our lives better unless we get out of our traps.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Sep 1, 20214 min read
How to communicate with your partner: everything you need to know
Misunderstandings come up in relationships all the time. And these cause all kinds of friction. But it doesn't have to be this way!
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 31, 20214 min read
The magic of the new
Want to bring back that falling-in-love feeling? The more ways you can make things new, the closer you’ll get to that.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 27, 20213 min read
The kindly breakup: is it possible
How do you minimize the other person's pain when you break up with them? Here's how.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 25, 20215 min read
How to make an effective apology
It was the dead of the night, about 3 AM, and I found myself mentally composing an apology for an offense I hadn’t committed.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 23, 20214 min read
Gaining the forgiveness we long for
This time the request is: “I would love to hear more of your take on forgiveness.”
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 21, 20214 min read
“How do I let go of the past?”
I think we all carry around a hurt or loss from the past that stays with us, haunts us, clings to us.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 19, 20215 min read
Dealing with a broken relationship
"I am in a point in my life where I need ideas about putting my 'relationship' with the woman who brought me to life, in a new frame."
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 16, 20214 min read
The benefit of giving the benefit of the doubt
Are you and your partner in one of those states where you’re both really frustrated with each other?
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 14, 20214 min read
A blind dog, Miles Davis, and true wisdom
We’re all thrown into a world we didn’t make. For many of us, this is a catastrophe from which we never recover.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 12, 20213 min read
Quiz: Before it’s too late...
Quiz time again. And yay!, one question only...
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 9, 20212 min read
You may be more into power than you think you are
This is a re-post of a blog we posted on March 16. Since then, things have moved forward.
Mira Kirshenbaum
Aug 7, 20214 min read
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