Love is all about your paying attention to what it’s like for your partner to be who they are, to live their life, and to live with you.

Having that "we have nothing in common" feeling? It doesn't have to be that way! Here's understanding and help that can turn it all around.

Love IS all about speaking from the heart, being vulnerable, and finding intimacy. Here's how to get this.

Love in NOT enough, not when it comes to all the many issues that money brings into a relationship. Here's understanding and help...

When's the last time you truly delighted in one another? Well, you can get that back. It's important! And here's how.

Love starts out alive, but then what happens to the aliveness of love? How do we keep love alive? Answers in pt 3 of What love is all about.

Play is the glue of love. Here we talk about the distractions, habits, and resentments that take play out of love, and how to overcome them.

Love really is all about trust. So what do we do with the reality that trust is so terribly fragile? Here's understanding and solutions.

New series: what love is all about. And we start with a bang by looking at the role love REALLY plays when it comes the sex part of love.

"Hello! Are you listening to me?" Most of us are struggling with how hard it is to get our partner's attention. Well, here's real help!

Should couples fight? Here one well known expert, me, slaps down another well known expert for her thoughts on this. What do you think?

Almost all people think they're way better at communicating and listening than they really are. It's time for you to have a check up!

When we vent our anger, it's bad for others and it actually hurts us even more. Time to say good-bye to anger? Check it out:

Should Will Smith have gotten up and slapped Chris Rock at the Oscar's? Here are my thoughts. What are yours?

Avril Lavigne's new album says Love Sux and her song asks Why? We wrote a book about this, and here are 3 short reasons why love sucks. YVW!

Why do we get stuck with things in our lives--relationships, activities, even so-called pleasures--that just don't work for us? Here's why:

Putin’s invasion of Ukraine provides a powerful lesson about how things go wrong in our relationships, and we'd better pay attention.

I know: you find yourself over-thinking everything all the time. It's exhausting, discouraging. Well, here's how to stop it in its tracks.

Sometimes in trying to be hopeful, we forget that hope is a drug and that the only way to make things happen is to focus on learning to cope

I've long wanted to share with you the story of the time I went to find my father. I was 17. How the story turns out...well, you'll see.