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You fall out of like before you fall out of love
When it comes to relationships, liking and disliking is a way more potent force than loving and not loving.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Apr 13, 20213 min read
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Making love come alive in your relationship
That’s what I want to do now: get you inspired, fired up, around the idea of bringing the love back into your relationship.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Apr 10, 20213 min read
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It DOESN’T have to be this way
What’s the obstacle in the way of making a love-saving revolution in your relationship? There are only two obstacles, really.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Mar 13, 20214 min read
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2 whole people = 1 whole relationship
If having a relationship were a game, how would you know your team won? What team? This doesn’t even compute for a lot of people.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Mar 3, 20213 min read
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“How do I get you to do what I want you to do?”
As you already know, or feel, housework is a hotbed of power politics. Mostly, the struggle upward away from the jobs no one wants to do.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Feb 27, 20215 min read
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Conflict! Distance!! Unmet needs!!!
Self-help books—unless they’re utterly incoherent—are all built around the same basic plan: Problem. Promise. Program.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Feb 25, 20213 min read
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Should we blame our parents for the way we are now?
How much and in what way are our parents responsible for the problems we have in our marriage now?

Mira Kirshenbaum
Feb 15, 20214 min read
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The ultimate secret for bringing back love
It’s so simple. You and your partner just sit down and write down the 7 things that make you feel loved.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Feb 12, 20214 min read
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Top 7 Rules for bringing affection back
Affection is just like artistic creativity. When artists start out, they’re pushed forward by a surge of feeling. “I MUST express myself!”

Mira Kirshenbaum
Feb 11, 20214 min read
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The affection you’ve been looking for
Why Couples Fight isn’t really about fighting or power. It’s about love. And the hope of love. And how to keep love alive.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Feb 8, 20213 min read
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The one thing money can’t buy
Let me tell you about some of the billionaires I’ve worked with, plus another thing that’s utterly new about Why Couples Fight.

Mira Kirshenbaum
Jan 18, 20214 min read
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