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Cool podcast

by Mira on June 30th, 2009

Hey, click here to listen to this podcast I just did for BoomerGirl.com!  I think you’ll find it a fun and interesting take on how to deal with affairs.

Media inquiries

by Mira on June 29th, 2009

For anyone in the media only wishing to interview Mira Kirshenbaum:  Read the rest of this entry. »

Which interview do you like best?

by Mira on June 28th, 2009

I’d love your help.  In the past year I’ve done two interviews for Time about infidelity.  Which do you like best?  Read the rest of this entry. »

My brand-new interview in Time

by Mira and Charles on June 26th, 2009

Check out my new interview in Time about affairs!  Read the rest of this entry. »

“When Good People…” out in paperback July 1

by Mira on June 26th, 2009

Good new!  I’ve just heard that the paperback edition of When Good People Have Affairs is scheduled for release on July 1.  So order now from your favorite bookstore now, or pre-order on Amazon.    Mira

Affair-Proofing Your Marriage, Part 2

by Mira and Charles on June 25th, 2009

Marriage is not low maintenance, but it’s not as hard as you might think.  Here are the fastest, easiest, most powerful ways to affair-proof your marriage: Read the rest of this entry. »

How to affair-proof your marriage

by Mira and Charles on June 23rd, 2009

“My spouse would never cheat on me.”

Oh yeah?  Well, guess again. 

I’m not saying your spouse isn’t a good person.  And I’m not saying your spouse will cheat on you.  I don’t know what your spouse is going to do!  What I am saying is that half of all marriages are touched by infidelity. THERE IS NO OTHER PART OF OUR LIVES WHERE THE RISK OF CATASTROPHE IS SO HIGH.

What you can’t do is take it for granted that your spouse won’t cheat. 

So what DOES protect you against this catastrophe?  Read the rest of this entry. »

Healing after an affair

by Mira and Charles on June 19th, 2009

Affairs are the heart attacks of relationships.  Sometimes the relationship dies.  But many times it turns out better than ever. 

The best approach is always to look for opportunities for healing.  There may be more opportunities, and more healing, than you thought possible.  You never know where the healing will come from. 

To see an example of this for yourself, here’s an article by Sasha Brown-Worsham that appeared in newspapers across the country yesterday.  (Full disclosure: I am the featured expert in this article!)  Read the rest of this entry. »

13 solutions for more sex in your marriage

by Mira and Charles on June 15th, 2009

Due to popular request, here, in one place, are all thirteen reasons why married couples fall into a pattern of having less sex.  More important, here also are 13 quick SOLUTIONS to help you have a more loving, more intimate, more enjoyable, and more FREQUENT sexual relationship.  Read the rest of this entry. »

YouTube, MeTube

by Mira on June 12th, 2009

In case you’re interested (and you just might be!), here are links that will let you see clips of me talking about my three of my ten books.  Read the rest of this entry. »

a selection of our books

  • Is He Mr. Right?
  • Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
  • The Weekend Marriage
  • Everything Happens for a Reason
  • Feel Better Fast
  • Emotional Energy Factor
  • Parent/Teen Breakthrough
  • What Do I Do Now?
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