This came up in a session with someone who was trying to make a new relationship work, after his previous marriage had fallen apart. He wanted to know how to prevent the problems that had been his part in the ending of his marriage.
I told him about the three things our partners need from us. Our problem, and it was this guy’s problem, is that we’re often good at delivering on one or two of these needs, but we miss the third one altogether.
But if you CAN deliver on these three needs, not perfectly (because none of us is perfect) but at a perceptible level, then you can and will keep your love alive.
The three needs are . . .