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Hey, click here to listen to this podcast I just did for BoomerGirl.com!  I think you’ll find it a fun and interesting take on how to deal with affairs.

For anyone in the media only wishing to interview Mira Kirshenbaum:  (more…)

I’d love your help.  In the past year I’ve done two interviews for Time about infidelity.  Which do you like best?  (more…)

Check out my new interview in Time about affairs!  (more…)

Good new!  I’ve just heard that the paperback edition of When Good People Have Affairs is scheduled for release on July 1.  So order now from your favorite bookstore now, or pre-order on Amazon.    Mira

Marriage is not low maintenance, but it’s not no maintenance.  If you don’t do things to keep it alive, it will die.  But it’s not as hard as you might think.  Here are the fastest, easiest, most powerful ways to keep your marriage alive: (more…)

“We would never get a divorce,” the young married couple said.

Oh yeah?  Well, guess again. 

You can’t take it for granted that your marriage will never end, and it might end long before you get a divorce. So what DOES protect you against this catastrophe?  (more…)

Affairs are the heart attacks of relationships.  Sometimes the relationship dies.  But many times it turns out better than ever. 

The best approach is always to look for opportunities for healing.  There may be more opportunities, and more healing, than you thought possible.  You never know where the healing will come from. 

To see an example of this for yourself, here’s an article by Sasha Brown-Worsham that appeared in newspapers across the country yesterday.  (Full disclosure: I am the featured expert in this article!)  (more…)

Due to popular request, here, in one place, are all thirteen reasons why married couples fall into a pattern of having less sex.  More important, here also are 13 quick SOLUTIONS to help you have a more loving, more intimate, more enjoyable, and more FREQUENT sexual relationship.  (more…)

In case you’re interested (and you just might be!), here are links that will let you see clips of me talking about my three of my ten books.  (more…)