I have a new book coming out soon. It has a great title — When Good People Have Affairs — but I just can’t seem to hit on the right subtitle. If you send me a subtitle that we actually use, I’ll send you a free autographed copy of the new book, and I’ll thank you in the acknowledgments of the book. Oh, and you can pre-order it on Amazon right now and get it for 39% off. Here’s what the book is about. (more…)
Archive for November 2007
All couples have problems. But how can you tell when those problems are just the normal stuff we all manage to live with, and when they’re signs of trouble?
We’ve learned something very important over the years we’ve worked with couples, something that means we now look at couples very differently if we want to figure out if a relationship can be saved. (more…)
Do you need to be in couples therapy? Yes, you do. Next question…
Okay. I’m sorry. I was kidding. The real answer is, Maybe, and quite possibly more than you realize.
Here’s the thing. Every experienced couples therapist will say the same thing: couples come into therapy far too late. By the time people seek help, problems have usually deepened and expanded and a lot of damage has usually been done.
So most couples need therapy a lot sooner than they think they do. But when is that exactly? (more…)