Update on Clutter Clashes
by Mira and Charles on January 18th, 2010A lot of you have written about how helpful our recent blog on Clutter Clashes was. But we left something out. When you try to use the tips there, remember this: Do NOT argue over who is right or wrong. Do NOT say things that imply that your partner is stupid, crazy, or evil, you know, like “What’s wrong with you? Why can’t you be like a normal person and…” Instead, just talk about what you want. You’re entitled to what you want. So is your partner. Now all you two have to do is talk this through until you find a solution. And that’s much easier when you aren’t putting each other down.
