Tiger Woods and you: Help you can use
by Mira and Charles on December 4th, 2009We all like ogling the trashiest parts of the private lives of celebrities. And we all love being as judgmental as hell. But what does the Tiger/Elin blow up really have to do with us? A lot, it turns out.
Many of us (the ones who say the least, I think) see this painful drama playing out and think, “This is me. I am going through this right now.”
And I wish a lot of us would think, “This could easily be me,” because a lot of us are an accident just waiting to happen when it comes to infidelity blowups.
And that means WE NEED HELP!
Now over the past many months, we’ve offered a lot of help right here, both for dealing with a crisis like this and for preventing such a crisis from happening. Here’s a sampling:
Suppose you are cheating with someone right now. You know this is a moment of danger and terrible conflict. What do you do???? Here’s some help. Of course one of the best things you can do is read When Good People Have Affairs.
Suppose one of you has had an affair and now the two of you are trying to heal your marriage. Is it possible? (Yes!!) How do you do it? Here’s some help for that. Of course this is a time when you need to improve your relationship fast, and there actually is a way to do that. Check it out. For another look at divorce protection, check this out.
And what if you’ve been betrayed? What’s the worst thing you can do? Here’s some help for that.
For help peering past your current crisis to see if your marriage will survive, check this out.
At some point before or after an affair, people often face the stark question: Should I stay or should I leave? So to see if your marriage SHOULD survive, the classic, world-wide bestselling book on this is Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay. Check it out. For busy couples whose lifestyles is getting in the way of their being close and happy, check this out.
People often point to sex as a reason for affairs. Sex is actually NOT as big a cause of affairs as people think, but having better sex with your spouse can help a lot. Here are 13 solutions for the most common sexual problems.
Of course the best way to prevent affairs is to keep your marriage fresh, alive, and happy. How do you do that? There are a lot more easy, effective solutions than you might think. For example, to affair proof your marriage, check this out. For that matter, if you want to have an affair, why not have an affair with your spouse? Oh, yes, you can: check it out. And here’s a story about a man who had an affair with his wife.
Now we know that people always wonder about the other woman. Who is she, tramp or chump? Vixen or victim? For a positive perspective, you have to read this. For a look at an all-too-common dark side—predatory women—check this out.
Well, that’s a lot of help. Still, we know that many of you need more help. Please check out all of our blogs here. But for experienced, expert, solution-focused, one-on-one help, please feel free to get in touch with us. We’re happy to help.
