http://www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog/108 w h e n y o u ' r e r e a d y t o m a k e r e a l c h a n g e s Sat, 11 Feb 2012 13:19:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.2.2 http://www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog/108#comment-2868 Charles Fri, 22 May 2009 18:38:00 +0000 http://www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog/108#comment-2868 I am very sorry to hear about your difficulties. But in this case I think it is reason number 2 that is going on. It can be very hard for a relationship to heal when there's been an affair. But you should know that it CAN heal. It just takes time and patience. And you may need counseling. But that doesn't mean you can't recover. I urge you to read our book When Good People Have Affairs. There's a lot of wisdom and help there, and it could make all the difference to your marriage. There is a long section on how to heal things. Warmly, Dr. Foster I am very sorry to hear about your difficulties. But in this case I think it is reason number 2 that is going on. It can be very hard for a relationship to heal when there’s been an affair. But you should know that it CAN heal. It just takes time and patience. And you may need counseling. But that doesn’t mean you can’t recover. I urge you to read our book When Good People Have Affairs. There’s a lot of wisdom and help there, and it could make all the difference to your marriage. There is a long section on how to heal things. Warmly, Dr. Foster

]]> http://www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog/108#comment-2867 caviles72 Fri, 22 May 2009 02:35:20 +0000 http://www.chestnuthillinstitute.com/blog/108#comment-2867 In my case number 4 applies: One of you wants to make love more often than the other and this has set up a dynamic where one is always pushing and the other resisting. My wife had an affair a year ago and since then. our marriage is coming apart, including the sex life, nothing is the same, there is a marriage before the affair, and after the affair, complete different. In my case number 4 applies: One of you wants to make love more often than the other and this has set up a dynamic where one is always pushing and the other resisting. My wife had an affair a year ago and since then. our marriage is coming apart, including the sex life, nothing is the same, there is a marriage before the affair, and after the affair, complete different.

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